being weak in order to be strong

This weekend I’m catsitting for a friend and using the opportunity to have some much needed time away from the kids and getting back to myself. I can’t even remember the last time I was by myself 🤔 As a full time Mama with two kids I don’t often have the space to think my…

embrace the bitch within

Finding your inner bitch can be a huge step in asserting your own power and finding your authentic self. There are moments in our lives where we can benefit from finding our voice and going for it with everything we got. Being a Bitch isn’t about making the people around you suffer, it’s about not…

students of bedroom burlesque

Even though the crazy corona times have been hard for my business. I am grateful that these lovely ladies have been supporting me and showing up to the online workshop every week with smiles on their faces and new amazing costume creations. The whole journey with them has meant a lot to me! I’m looking…

Space Babes video!

Bedroom Burlesque online workshop – Space Babes theme 🚀 Online workshops take place every Friday evening 20:00 – 21:00 via skype. Sign up for the next one – email: schoenheitstanz@posteo.de I would love to see you there ♥

wings in the moonlight

Some women are more moth than butterfly, unveiling their painted wings in the moonlight where only someone who isn’t afraid to enter the darkness is worthy to adore them. – Amanda Celek Photo: Carsten Schulze 

Experiencing the darkness that visited us that night was frightening

Trigger warning (content about sexual abuse trauma). Meet Zeldor – The Dream Dragon. I created her after witnessing one of my students experiencing a very graphic and painful flash back to her past trauma of sexual abuse during a private lesson. There was nothing I could do to help her in this moment but just…

I threw my broken shoes aside and jumped into the middle

Here comes a little story that warms my heart every time I think back on it… During the summer I was invited to do a workshop at the Pangea Festival.  They wanted me to not only teach Burlesque but also have a self-love and confidence building element to it as well – great just my…

my favourite part of all… the wooden clogs

It’s fun Friday everyone!… I just went to McDonald’s with my son because today is what we like to call “fun Friday” so we only do fun things. As we were sitting there the best thing happened.. A cowboy came in with his backpack, tent, and sleeping bag on his back, metal cup, and plate…

PRIDE weekend 2019

Wow what a lovely pride weekend, so much love and so many beautiful people. Here’s what pride means to me… We live in a world that is constantly telling us that we don’t measure up to the unrealistic socially constructed ideas of what “beauty” & “sexy” is supposed to look like. It’s time to redefine…