trans 101

A friend of mine recommended this easy to follow 101 guide on youtube about what it means to be transgender, and what we can do as friends and allies to show our support  and now I have totes got a crush on – CHASE – the host of the channel 😜

saying no as well as yes

Here is a great article by Franki Cookney about the common misinterpretation of what it means to be Sex Positive …. “People assume sex positive means you have lots of sex. I see it as being empowered to do what you want and need and for me that was going abstinent. In Scarlet Ladies there…

The Sex Salon Berlin – podcast

Check out this great podcast “THE SEX SALON with KATE LIS” which has been created by one of our lovely sex positive Berlin babes … The Sex Salon Berlin is a podcast series that reveal the fabric of Berlin. One little conversation at a time. Each episode you’ll meet a person whom chose to move…

fear of looking stupid

My Burlesque students often tell me that learning how to give good face while performing (face expression, eye contact, flirting etc) is one of the hardest parts of the workshop – why?… because they feel silly when they do it. I tell them YESSSSSsssss and that is what’s so great about it. In order to…

Schnupper Special – 03.03.19

Come and find out what Bedroom Burlesque is all about at this fun ladies night with sparkling wine, learning a few Bedroom Burlesque moves, Shopping, and lots of laughs! Oh and I will also perform the Bedroom Burlesque Striptease for you 😍 03.03.19 at 18:30 – 20:00 Special Schnuppertease price: 10€ Location: Schönheitstanz Berlin Studio…

I have decided to lean into the fear

Wow! I just got a message from a former Burlesque Graduate of mine that had to move back to her small town in America which is known to have strong religious and conservative values. She told me that she is about to reveal herself and give a talk at her co-working space (she works in…

I viewed my strength as a weakness

At high school the boys used to laugh at me and say I should have been a player on the All Black rugby team because I was so huge. As I walked passed they would make sounds of the earth cracking under my feet like a giant. Back then I viewed my strength as a…

New little Workshop Trailer!

Here is the new trailer to give you an idea of what we do in my Bedroom Burlesque Workshops and see the beautiful location – Schönheitstanz Studio Berlin. ** BEDROOM BURLESQUE IS… a concept designed to empower women by bringing, Body Positivity and Burlesque together in a space where women can discover their sexy side…

What is MY favourite body part?

I haven’t written anything in a while and I feel like it’s time to get back on that keyboard and tap out some of the stuff that has been rattling around in my head. So here we goooo… During one of my Burlesque workshops recently there was a section where I ask my students to…

new! – private girls night workshops –

PRIVATE WORKSHOP IN YOUR OWN HOME ♥  Lady Lou will come to you!  ♥ ♥  You and your girlfriends will learn together in the comfort of your own home   ♥ ♥  2 Hour Burlesque Workshop  ♥ ♥  Including – How to perform a Bedroom Burlesque Striptease and sensual soft bondage on your lover  ♥…